it really amazes me how some people could be so nonchalant and stubborn to improve the way one treats the others, always waiting for the other party to approach them first before even any conversation starts.
its not easy for me to dislike someone since i often tend to put myself in others' shoes and understand their meaning behind doing certain things that may not look justified on the surface.
for such issues, i tend to need some time to cool things off and all would be fine. the negative aspect would be that i tend to be a follower and lack a mind of my own, i guess.
however once i start to develop a sense of dislike for a person, its like a poisonous black ball, rolling and rolling, to form big, large, huge, gigantic ones.
my ball started out pretty late, from its humble beginnings of neutral feelings.
soon it started to grow into a sense of distaste and disagreement which i had tried to dismiss but somehow its quite stuck.
then it went on to become feelings of dislike, irritation, frustration, disgust, disregard and whatever could be worse after that.
i dont think it would be easy for me to dismiss such feelings anymore;they would always exist.

some people have really taught me that for one reason or another, some people just dont click with each other.
well, THIS is unexplained by science.(LOL)
they may not have done anything invasive or whatsoever to you, but somehow you just dislike them - their behaviour, their mindsets, their aspirations, their existence.
i hate to have that feeling but luckily, i dont think i develop such feelings easily.
i would just avoid interaction with them anyway, to prevent further deepening of my disgust.

seriously, i dont think its very nice to jeer at someone desperate and willing to learn something completely new, no matter how much you are advanced about that arena.
that is totally revolting.
the least you could do was to shut up.